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Wow I forgot about this
No I didn't, I'm just lazy

I hate when the same person I've seen vent over and over and over again sends another vent, crying because their mom they live with wants them to eat their vegetables, or eat anything with any source of nutrients, or you know, do something, anything, that could be healthy for them at all.
So they vent because their parents are being responsible, and their reaction is to vent in a public server, talking about how they want to be a meme after a year (avoiding that word so the mods don't make me a meme after a year). Like alright, pretty big reaction, I don't know how to respond to that, because I am not a professional, I'm just an idiot drawing Warrior Cat fan ocs screaming about how I swear I'm not a furry.
Well after a while of posting really big reactions to really small things and not immediately getting the spotlight because everyone is uncomfortable, they start crying about it. This forces me to say "Hey dude, we're not professional psychologists, we're just a bunch of people in a furry server, seek professional help."
Who ever thought that saying "go to someone who knows what they're doing, rather than a server that's still talking about Undertale in 2020" would be a controversial opinion.
I don't care if you saw three therapists that you never saw for a second appointment because they didn't treat you like a fragile egg, you should never drag your friends into your chamber of toxic depression. Your "friends" as you call them have never been taught how to handle your massive dumps, so while they may say "Oh it's fine" it's not. People can handle occasional vents, that's no big deal. Wanna yell about how your dog puked on the couch? Go for it. Your boss is being smelly? Let's yell together. But if you "need" to vent everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, you are a hindrance to a person who doesn't feel love for you, they feel responsible for you. They, and so many other people, will have a weight lifted once they've kicked you from their lives.

If someone vents to you all the time, or enough to the point it's weighing you down, kick them to the curb and block them. They want attention and they don't care who they have to tear down to get it. After you tell them no more, don't be surprised if they suddenly disappear from the site. They do that because they want to punish you, they want you to think something bad happened to them so you'll run to them. Truth is they just fled to another site or another account they didn't tell you about. You are responsible for your own health, no one else's, and you should never let anyone tear you down in the slightest, because they will take advantage of that.

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